Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Ephesians 4-C No Beachhead of Bitterness

S = 4:26-27, 31-32 “Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and give no opportunity to the devil… Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”

O = In the context of this passage, the way in which we deny the devil an opportunity is by dealing swiftly and faithfully with our anger. The best way to stop an invasion is to keep the enemy from establishing a beachhead in the first place. Unresolved anger provides the devil with a beachhead from which he can expand his destructive work in our lives. Paul is calling on the Ephesians to throw the invaders of offense, bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and slander out of our hearts into the sea of forgiveness. It truly can be a Red Sea type of moment for us when we can no longer be hurt by the actions or inactions of others in our past because the sea of forgiveness has covered it all. The dividing and conquering work of the enemy is healed and unity is built by my actively obeying God’s orders in verse 32. Kindness, and tenderhearted care for one another, goes a long way towards binding up all our wounds and building trust relationships for the future. Being the church requires this kind of active forgiveness.

A = Is there any area where I have unresolved anger in my heart? Perhaps I don’t stir it up often, but maybe there are areas I have fenced off and posted with a “Danger! Mines!” sign that need to be reclaimed. Lord, have mercy! Have I deceived myself into believing that my sins for which Christ died are somehow less heinous than what others have done to me?  Lord, have mercy! Have I begun to demand grace for myself and law for others? Lord, have mercy! This week I need to look for ways to actively forgive others, because I have been forgiven much more than I deserve. I need to pound the enemy’s beachhead in the lives of others with consistent acts of kindness, and by taking time to listen to people’s story with a tender heart.

P = O Lord, may I become a fountain of forgiveness this week…not because I am better than others, for I am not, but because you have forgiven me and shown me mercy! Holy Spirit, may your presence in my life produce fruit that tastes of you (Gal. 5:22-23) to others, rather than leaving the bitter aftertaste of my own selfishness. May I not see other people as irritating, or even as enemies, but as precious children whom you dearly love. Enlarge my heart to better understand what it is that you have done for me, so that I can share that same love with others this week…because you deserve it! Amen.

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